Argue vs. Quarrel

synonyms

Both verbs refer to having a verbal disagreement with someone but they have a subtle difference which we are going to explore in this lesson.

What is the difference between 'argue' and 'quarrel'?

Both 'argue' and 'quarrel' mean to have a disagreement with someone and talk angrily about it. However, 'argue' refers to a more reasoned disagreement while 'quarrel' is more emotional. This lesson will discuss the differences between these two verbs in more detail.

Reason vs. Emotion

'Argue' generally refers to a more reasoned or logical exchange of differing opinions or viewpoints. It involves presenting and defending one's position or perspective by engaging in a debate or discussion to persuade or convince others. 'Quarrel', on the other hand, typically refers to a more heated, emotional, and confrontational exchange between people who are generally on good terms with each other. 'Quarreling' tends to be less focused on logical reasoning or constructive dialogue and more on expressing strong negative emotions. It might continue for a long time and be over many different and often unimportant things. Here are some examples:

They often argue about politics, engaging in passionate debates.

'Argue' is more reasoned and logical and cannot be used interchangeably with 'quarrel'.

The siblings argued over who should do the household chores.

The siblings often quarrel over sharing their toys.

'Quarrel' is often about unimportant things and is emotional rather than logical, so it cannot be used interchangeably with 'argue'.

The teammates quarreled during the game, leading to a loss of focus.

Tip!

Both 'argue' and 'quarrel' are reciprocal verbs which means the action of the verb is performed mutually on both parties. Two people can argue/quarrel with each other or one can argue/quarrel with another. Take a look at some examples:

The husband and wife started quarreling/arguing.

The husband started quarreling/arguing with his wife.

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