Reflexive Verbs 

Dive into reflexive verbs like 'enjoy yourself'. Detailed explanations and a quiz to test your knowledge.

"Reflexive Verbs" in the English Grammar

What Are Reflexive Verbs?

Some verbs only take reflexive pronouns as their direct object or convey a unique meaning when used with these pronouns. These verbs are called reflexive verbs.

Reflexive Verbs: Types

Reflexive verbs can be categorized into three types:

Verbs that only allow a reflexive pronoun

Verbs that express an idiomatic meaning when used with reflexive pronouns

Verbs that use reflexive pronouns to express a result

Verbs That Only Allow a Reflexive Pronoun

The following is a list of verbs in English that always take a reflexive object. Most of these verbs are formal or literary.

Perjure

Pride

Absent

Avail (of)

Comport

Ingratiate

Express (the only possible human object is reflexive)

Check out the examples:

Example

She absented herself from the meeting.

They availed themselves of the opportunity.

He prides himself on his work.

Reflexive Verbs with Idiomatic Meaning

Some verbs can be used with both reflexive and non-reflexive objects, but they express an idiomatic meaning when used with reflexive pronouns which is different from their meaning when used with non-reflexive objects. Examples of such verbs include:

help oneself → to serve or take something for oneself

find oneself → to be in a particular place or condition

enjoy oneself → to have fun in a particular activity or situation

behave/conduct/demean/acquit oneself → to act in a proper or appropriate way

suit oneself → to do whatever one wants

apply oneself → to focus or dedicate oneself to a task or goal

see oneself → to imagine or visualize oneself in a particular situation or place

distinguish oneself → to make oneself stand out or be recognized

prove oneself → to show one's ability or worth

content oneself → to accept something that is less that ideal

excel oneself → to do something better than one usually does

exert oneself → to make a big physical or mental effort

explain oneself → to offer justification for one's behavior

Here are some examples of using these verbs in sentences:

Example

She contented herself with a small meal.

If you apply yourself, you can pass the exam easily.

He exerted himself to finish the marathon despite the heat.

Reflexive Verbs Expressing a Result

This group consists of verbs that are essentially intransitive or cannot have a human object. However, they take a reflexive pronoun together with an object complement to express a result of the action of the verb. These are often expressive, emotional, or metaphorical verbs, such as:

Cry

Laugh

Drink

Eat

Talk

Work

Scare

Example

I cried myself to sleep last night.

Here, "to sleep" is the result predicative.

He drank himself sick at the party.

Are you trying to work yourself to death?

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Reflexive Indirect Objects and Objects of Preposition

Sometimes, the reflexive pronoun is not the direct object of the verb, but its indirect object, or an object of preposition. In these cases too, the reflexive construction expresses an idiomatic or unique meaning that can only be expressed reflexively. For example:

Example

He didn't give himself time to grieve.

Here, "himself" is the indirect object of the verb "give."

They told themselves it would be okay.

This expression means they reassured or tried to convince themselves.

He tends to keep to himself at parties.

"keep to oneself" means to avoid sharing thoughts or mixing with others

She was beside herself with joy when she heard the news.

"be beside oneself" means to be overcome by some emotion.

Tip!

Some sources consider any verb that can take a reflexive pronoun as object a reflexive verb. Many English verbs can take reflexive verbs without a change in meaning. Although grammatically correct, this is a property of reflexive pronouns, not the specific verb.

Example

He was talking to himself.

This sentence is not any different from "He was talking to his friend."

They introduced themselves to the villagers.

You can also say "They introduced their friend to the villagers."

Review

Reflexive verbs take reflexive pronouns as their only possible object, or take reflexive pronouns as the object to express an idiomatic meaning or a result of the action of the verb on the subject. Reflexive verbs can take reflexive pronouns as direct objects, indirect objects, and objects of preposition. Here are some examples"

Example

The witness perjured herself during the trial by denying what she had earlier confessed.

He finds it hard to express himself in front of large groups.

Express can take non-reflexive objects, but the only human object it allows is a reflexive pronoun.

Please help yourself to some cookies.

She scared herself silly watching that horror movie alone.

Quiz:


1.

Arrange the words to form correct sentences using reflexive verbs.

in
distinguished
.
herself
the
competition
she
2.

Which sentence contains a reflexive verb expressing a result?

A

He laughed himself breathless after hearing the joke.

B

She always expresses herself very clearly.

C

They found themselves in a strange neighborhood at night.

D

He prided himself on completing the project alone.

3.

Match each sentence with the relevant category of reflexive verb.

Please help yourself to dessert.
She perjured herself in court.
He cried himself to sleep.
Idiomatic meaning
Expresses a result
Only allows reflexive pronouns
4.

Fill the table by choosing the reflexive verb that matches the meaning. (There are three extra options.)

MeaningVerb

to have fun in an activity

oneself

to focus or dedicate oneself to a task

oneself

to act in a proper or appropriate way

oneself

to be in a particular place or condition

oneself

to make a big physical or mental effort

oneself

Enjoy
Apply
Behave
Find
Exert
express
help
suit
5.

Which sentence uses a reflexive pronoun as an object of preposition?

A

She gave herself a break.

B

He hurt himself playing soccer.

C

They behaved themselves at the party.

D

She was beside herself with excitement.

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