Identity, Personality & Self-Presentation - Queer Slang & Expressions

Here you will find slang and expressions from queer communities, reflecting identities, experiences, and culture in casual, creative language.

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Identity, Personality & Self-Presentation
Achillean [adjective]

describing romantic or sexual attraction between men, often used in queer or literary contexts

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beard [noun]

a person used as a date or partner to hide someone's sexual orientation

Ex: In the movie , the character hires a beard to protect his image .
binding [noun]

the act or practice of wearing tight clothing or compression garments to flatten the chest

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camp [adjective]

exaggerated, theatrical, or amusing, often associated with gay culture or femininity

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closeted [adjective]

not openly revealing one's sexual orientation or gender identity

Ex: A closeted teen often fears judgment from family or friends .

to no longer keep one's sexual preference or gender identity a secret

Ex: He came out of the closet last year and has since become an advocate for LGBTQ+ rights .
folx [noun]

a gender-inclusive or alternative spelling of "folks," used to address a group of people

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to seek a casual sexual encounter in a public place, typically between gay men

Ex: They used to cruise in parks before dating apps existed .
femboy [noun]

a male who presents or expresses themselves in a feminine or androgynous way

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gaydar [noun]

the supposed ability to detect someone's sexual orientation

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gaymer [noun]

an LGBTQIA+ person who plays video games

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homoflexible [adjective]

mostly homosexual but occasionally attracted to the opposite sex

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outsider [noun]

a person who does not conform to normative taboos or self-centered community norms

Ex: An outsider often stands apart from self-centered social groups .

a confident, fabulous person, often used in camp or queer contexts

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trade [noun]

a straight-passing male partner, often used by gay men or trans women

Ex: A trade often appears straight but dates within queer circles .
roommate [noun]

a same-sex significant other with whom one lives

Ex: A roommate can be more than just a coinhabitant ; they 're your partner .

a homosexual person who has never had heterosexual sexual intercourse

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heteroflexible [adjective]

mostly heterosexual but occasionally attracted to the same sex

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top [noun]

the dominant or active sexual partner in a homosexual encounter

Ex: A top often directs the pace and positions during sex .
bottom [noun]

a receptive sexual partner, typically in a homosexual encounter

Ex: A bottom often lets the top take the lead .

someone who takes the active role in sex but follows the bottom's instructions, focusing on doing what their partner wants

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a receptive partner in sex who is energetic, confident, or in control

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vers [noun]

a person who enjoys both topping and bottoming, switching between dominant and submissive roles in sex

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switch [noun]

a person who enjoys both topping and bottoming, or alternating between dominant and submissive roles

Ex: She loves being a switch ; keeps things interesting .

a performer, usually male, who dresses in exaggerated women's clothing and makeup

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a cisgender female drag performer, commonly used in LGBTQ+ spaces

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